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17
Oct

On Polyamory & Letting Go: by Alice in Polyland

My Dear Reader,

Polyamorous lifestyle requires quite a bit of letting go…

Letting go of people you’ve just met or been intimate with… Letting go of dreams, hopes and ideas that came to an end. Letting go of stories of what has happened and whose fault it was. Forgiving myself and others. Accepting what is. Organic process of burning into the ashes and rising like a Phoenix again and again.

I choose polyamory because I don’t believe in rigid rules of monogamy. I align with the idea of not having to limit the abundance of love and lust within me.

I want to fully embody who I am – an intensely sensitive, emotional, expressive, sexual and {imperfectly} loving woman.

According to the attachment theory we all attach in various ways. Some are avoidant and tend to connect slowly and reluctantly. Others attach and detach with ease. Letting go for someone who has an anxious attachment style is especially hard.

What happens is – I attach quickly, and detach painfully. Relationships come at a cost of beautiful highs and excruciating lows. The burning of the Phoenix is my teaching. I learn to surrender and accept. I learn to love myself through tough times. I grow. I birth into a new me.

This continuing process of renewal strengthens me. Some endings teach me more about myself and ways to improve, than do the good times. I am forever grateful to all of my teachers. Though I often hate the pain I feel in the process.

I believe nothing is wasted as pain turns into compassion and love. In our myriad of experiences of this roller coaster we call life.

Evguenia (aka Alice) is an accredited Professional Energy Healer and a Passionate Sex Educator. 
Having gone through a deep personal transformation herself – Evguenia’s biggest heart’s desire is to help you embrace your authenticity and guide you towards Breathtaking Sex,  Playful Spirituality & Life full of Creativity and Passion

URL: www.spiritsexlab.com

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03
Oct

Sexy Lunch; Erotica by Alice in PolyLand

Café. Lunch time. Taking a break from work. Alice and G. are sitting in front of each other, talking, looking like an ordinary couple having a quiet meal.

You, my dear reader, must know by now that things are not always what they seem… Especially when it comes to Alice… She has a clit/G-spot vibrator inside, he – the remote control and a chastity device on.

Lots of chemistry and sexual energy all around. Ordering coffee, eggs benedict. Smiling at the waitress.

Seems that she, too, is feeling the butterflies flying around the table. Sensing silky, sexual energy – warmer and deeper running juices of lust. Smiling with understanding, slightly flirting as she’s taking the order.

G’s unpredictable, in charge and playful. He presses the remote button whenever he feels like it. She’s easy to arouse and so animated. A delivery man comes into the door catching a glimpse of her face {in the throes of passion} looks completely confused as to what has taken place. Wait staff are chatting and smiling. “Are they discussing us?”, Alice thinks to herself. Public play is both exhilarating and nerve-wracking.

Alice looks beautiful and aroused, G’s so excited by her reaction.

There’s a caveat though – as he’s controlling her, her arousal is controlling him… They are interconnected, you see. What a devious plot. The perpetrator and the victim are in it together. Intertwined. Enjoying the power exchange. Switching roles.

Nearing an orgasm, Alice is wondering: “What am I going to do with a puddle on a seat…?” And then the remote control malfunctions and stops working!! What a pity. Or is it?

They leave and finish playing inside the house.

It’s time to pick up kids, G. leaves.

She has a huge smile on her face. Comes to the bus stop and sits right on the wet grass… There’s an aura of happiness, lust and sexuality all around her. An afterglow of ecstasy. Unable to answer a friend’s question, just smiling widely with a dreamy face.

“My life is so boring in comparison to yours” says the friend looking at Alice.

The bus full of kids arrives to the stop.
Reality kicks in leaving the sexual dream behind. I’m sure it won’t be long till we meet again.

 

Evguenia (aka Alice) is an accredited Professional Energy Healer and a Passionate Sex Educator.
Having gone through a deep personal transformation herself – Evguenia’s biggest heart’s desire is to help you embrace your authenticity and guide you towards Breathtaking Sex,  Playful Spirituality & Life full of Creativity and Passion

URL: www.spiritsexlab.com

FB: https://www.facebook.com/SpiritSexLab

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spiritsexlab

YouTube : https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbH_cMiEI71Ng915jnAc_LA

22
Sep

Listen to The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol & David

Tune in and turn on to The Sexy Lifestyle with radio hosts Carol and David.  Their latest episode features sexy cam couple PeacockCouple, including their porn shoot at Oasis Aqualounge.

Carol and David will be visiting Oasis Aqualounge on Thursday November 23rd for our media party, which will launch the Everything To Do With Sex Show weekend.