About Oasis

Oasis Aqualounge is a water themed adult’s playground in downtown Toronto. This beautifully restored 19th century mansion offers an exciting spa, lounge and vacation environment where you can spice things up, day or night. Unwind in our hot-tub, dry off in our sauna and take a dip in our year round outdoor heated pool in a private sunny courtyard. Enjoy a drink from one of our two bars, on our poolside patio or in the beautifully decorated play areas spanning four floors where you can meet people who share your interests or spend your time alone together. Check out our BLOG page for the latest in Oasis stories, event recaps and more. See how well reviewed Oasis is in the media, and enjoy the open sharing in the testimonials and love from our customers. An adventurous place to sun, soak and explore your sexuality. What are you waiting for?

Enhance your relationship and reignite your passion at Oasis Aqualounge, open every day of the week! Find your favourite type of event based on your relationship status and what you’re into on our events page. We’re a team of over 40 people who love what Oasis is about and we’ve made it our mission to be your oh-oh-Oasis in the centre of Toronto. If you have more questions, reach out to us or read answers on our FAQ – frequently asked questions page. For pricing information, check out our dedicated pricing page. Finally, to receive our weekly newsletter detailing upcoming events at the club and around the Greater Toronto Area, sign up for our newsletter on the blog page. We hope to see you soon!

Our Mission

Oasis Aqualounge provides its members with an upscale, sexually liberated and clothing-optional space that caters to the needs of women and their partners.

We believe in excellent customer service, hygienic facilities and creating an environment that inspires relaxation and intimacy from early in the day until late in the evening.

In a society that stifles sexuality between consenting adults, Oasis Aqualounge provides the chance to explore one’s fantasies, to enjoy a rewarding sex life and meet other like-minded individuals.

Your Key Contacts

General Manager

Dylan Tower moved from New Brunswick to Toronto in 2008 to pursue an education in mechanical engineering at the University of Toronto. He joined the Oasis team in 2013 and worked in customer service and as a cleaner.  As a volunteer coordinator and educator at U of T’s  Sexual Education Centre, Dylan organized a massive student event at Oasis Aqualounge in January 2013. This party made headlines all over the world and became best known as “The U of T Student Orgy.” The event drew hundreds of people and the media attention that followed put Oasis on the map. Dylan became the producer of Sass After Class–a weekly feature for those between the ages of 19-35.

In April 2014, Dylan was promoted to General Manager and became a business partner, overseeing staff and the internal workings of the club. Having worked in all the different areas, his skill and knowledge of Oasis is definitely an asset to the business. His love for the venue can be surmised as such; “Oasis allows anyone who is willing to come in (to) express themselves in a group of non-judgmental, diverse, and encouraging peers. Once you step inside, everyone is equal. ” 

His future plans include helping to grow the business, while continuing to upgrade the amenities creating the best experience possible for guests. For general manager inquires about Oasis Aqualounge, please contact: dylan@oasisaqualounge.com



Photo by Michelle Siu

Oasis was founded by a small group of sex positive women and couples who had a vision for an adult playground and are thrilled with how it worked out. Judy Kaye is one of those founding partners who helped grow Oasis to one of Toronto’s fastest growing consumer services business (according to the 2018 and 2019 Growth 500 and Top Growing Companies list for those years).

Judy built and maintains the Oasis website, coordinates the newsletter customer outreach, works with designers to create the Oasis Aquashop clothing line and deals with outside partners and the community to keep the business thriving, while striving to be a good neighbour.

Like all Oasis partners, Judy also hosts some of her favourite events and together with the senior management team, helps set the strategy to manage the continuing growth. Judy speaks on behalf of Oasis helping remove stigma about what a sex club is and how it can help empower women to embrace, grow and explore their sexuality.

In addition to holding an MBA with experience starting and growing other businesses before Oasis, Judy enjoys being interviewed about Oasis by the media. She is a mother of three, amateur pole dancer and occasional fitness competitor. She and her husband enjoy travelling around the world to other clubs gathering ideas to bring back home, to continue to make Oasis a leader in unique fun and sexy programming. Between meetings, you might find Judy in the pool.


Marketing Director/Event Producer/ Business Partner

Fatima Mechtab is the Marketing Director, Event Producer and one of the business partners for Oasis Aqualounge.

She produces Sex School; a monthly event on the first Friday of the month, Money Shot; an evening of live porn & erotic photography, Bump N’ Grind Fridays; a sexy lap dance-inspired event on the 2nd Friday, MEGA Party; held on the 3rd Sunday night monthly, Swordplay for queer/bisexual men held on the last Sunday, bi-monthly, the reoccurring Polyamory Matchmaking held on occasional Sunday evenings and all of our themed, Saturday night events. She is also the sole producer and promoter of Sapphic Aquatica; an exclusive bathhouse event for queer women and all trans identities.

Fatima enjoys writing press releases, erotica,  blog posts, engaging with the media and articles for both the Oasis Aqualounge newsletters and for SDC.com.  She has been interviewed on CIUT 89.5 FM, Proud FM, Xtra, Globe and Mail, The Toronto Sun, The National Post, VICE Magazine  and Sirius XM Satellite Radio and numerous podcasts. She enjoys networking with various sex educators, health care professionals, adult performers and related entrepreneurs.

She is also involved in fundraising activities for organizations in the realm of sexuality/ wellness and is a part of the colorful LGBTQ+ community.

Submissions, questions and media inquiries are always welcome and can be sent to: fatima@oasisaqualounge.com.