From Hotwife to Unicorn: An Erotic and Empowering Transition

Open relationships inspire partners to embrace diverse identities within an ethically non-monogamous framework, such as the hotwife dynamic or dating a unicorn. But this unique freedom can also empower individuals to transition between roles, guided by their personal desires.

In particular, bisexual women who are in open relationships may enjoy the idea of unicorn with another couple, while still maintaining their hotwife status. Luckily, no rules are restricting the transition from hotwife to unicorn, even if it’s just for one night!

Embracing A Unicorn Identity as the Object of Desire

For women who assume a particular identity with an open relationship, such as a hotwife or a cuckqueans, exploring being a unicorn allows her the be centered, as the object of desire, between a couple.  

And especially for women who tend to pursue and initiate or who are more voyeuristic, transitioning into a unicorn can provide an erotic shift in power dynamics.

Identities Can Be Fluid with Freedom to Explore

Open, ethically non-monogamous (ENM) relationships are designed to allow for growth and evolution between partners. While this concept can also exist within monogamous relationships, the transition between roles in ENM relationships tends to be more seamless because the open nature of the relationship has already been established.

For example, a swinger couple that permits extraneous sexual activity outside of their core relationship could conceive more easily the idea of the female playing with another couple, known as a ‘unicorn.’

This understanding may seem less challenging for non-monogamous couples, encouraging confidence in exploring these relationship dynamics.

The Allure of Being Sought After and Sexual Confidence

Within lifestyle terms, ‘unicorns’ are bisexual women who love to be intimate with both men and women, within a couple.  And unicorns are considered highly desirable within threesome play.

For most women, it is a rush to feel so covetable and to be the focus of erotic fantasies. But traditionally, unicorns are viewed as solitary entities rather than paired beings.

So, while it may be an uncommon concept to view a ‘female unicorn’ as also belonging within an existing relationship, there is no reason why that can’t be the case. And partnered, ENM women should feel the freedom to explore a sexually-charged threesome, even if it’s only a one-time experience.

Explore the Unicorn Gathering at Oasis Aqualounge

Oasis Aqualounge hosts ‘Unicorn Night’ monthly, on the fourth Saturday. This event encourages threesome play between couples and solo women with the inclusion of icebreakers and sometimes, guest speakers to help facilitate mingling and flirting.

Over the past year, Unicorn Night has included a ‘Unicorn Gathering’ into its event format, to help support and motivate solo women who attend this night. The Unicorn Gathering is one hour, allowing those who attend the opportunity to chat, ask questions and embrace their identity with pride.

Oasis Aqualounge encourages any woman to attend this event, regardless of their relationship structure. All solo women are invited to the Unicorn Gathering to learn and meet other women who are interested in or have experience being in a threesome with a male/female couple.

Become a Unicorn for the Night

Unicorn Night at Oasis Aqualounge wants to inspire solo women to embrace their desires and for couples to explore threesomes with other, consensual adults. 

And the beauty of sex club themes is that they allow guests to embody fantasies within a safe and liberated environment without the pressure of assuming a particular identity in the vanilla world.

So, go ahead and become a unicorn, for the night!

Become a Unicorn for the Night