There are a variety of safe and well lit parking options near Oasis. Click here for addresses and a map with details of pay parking options to use when visiting Oasis.
If you are planning for a weekend evening out, club wear or sexy lingerie is perfectly acceptable. Some events are themed so refer to our website for ideas and inspiration. Customers who enjoy the Oasis dungeon or special fetish events love to bring their fetish outfits–anything from lace to latex is welcome. We are a body-positive establishment, meaning all shapes and sizes are welcome and admired. The most important aspect is that you feel comfortable and sexy during your visit so wear (or don’t wear) what makes you feel amazing. Enjoy the freedom to express your own individuality.
We’ve written an entire blog on ‘What to wear to Oasis’. Click HERE to read it.
We supply plush towels, condoms, sunscreen and summer pool side service. You also have in and out privileges, so you can spend the afternoon in the pool or on the deck, then go out for dinner (there are over 100 restaurants in walking distance, for a list of our favourites CLICK HERE) and return for more music, dancing and…
Your ID, of course. Just like all Ontario bars, everyone needs to have their ID with them to confirm they are over 19 and if you’d like to start a tab at our bar.
For enjoying the outside pool and deck, we suggest sunglasses, although we sell Oasis branded sunglasses if you forget. You can bring your own sunscreen, but again, Oasis has a sunscreen station by the pool where we provide complimentary sunscreen. Some guests like to wear flip flops and a robe while walking around the club (or for going out front to our smoking area–of course, Oasis also sells flip flops and robes in our store and we make available some complimentary loaner robes (our smoking jackets) and have outside heaters in the smoking area and leading to the pool). We do work hard to ensure the club’s temperature is comfortable for nudity year round.
Our Dungeon is equipped with a swing, St. Andrew’s Cross and other dungeon furniture, but for hygienic reasons, you are invited to bring your own ‘toys’ like floggers, restraints, etc. for use with your partner.
It’s also important to know what NOT to bring to Oasis. Please don’t bring any outside drinks or liquids with you to Oasis. Also don’t bring anything glass or breakable, as we can’t have glass around our pool and hot tub. All Oasis cups are plastic, for everyone’s safety. This includes any smoking paraphernalia, glass dildos, etc. due to the risk of the glass breaking. Many guests walk around in bare feet by the pool and in the spa area so we don’t want anyone getting hurt.
Not sure if swinging is for you? Join us on the first and third Thursday of each month or the second Saturday afternoon each month for First Taste, our program which includes a tour of the club along with a presentation on sex club etiquette and the lifestyle and a conversation with Oasis couples who will share their experience with swinging and answer your questions.
Are you interested in joining online conversations about Oasis Aqualounge? Would you like to ask questions/engage in conversations with other guests? If you are in the Lifestyle and would like to meet other like-minded couples, check out the forums page on Cafe Desire-where Canada comes to play! We also have a group thread on Fetlife, which is geared towards those interested in exploring fetishes and kinks. Those are great sites for meeting like minded people and arranging to meet them in person at Oasis. Of course there are many others, including SDC, Okay Cupid, and many more.
Oasis offers complimentary cards with ‘We met at Oasis” and pens at both bars so you can exchange information with others that you meet that you want to stay in touch with. Whether you meet new friends or friends with benefits, its always great to enjoy conversations with others that share your sexually liberated values.
“The management at Oasis Aqualounge strongly believe in gender equality and sexual freedom. While our pricing structure and policies seemingly encourages gender stereotyping, it is an unavoidable reality of hetero-centered sex clubs. Non gendered pricing would be the ideal choice, given our liberated stance. However, throughout the years, we have come to understand that of our guests, cis males behave differently than cis females, especially when visiting a clothing optional, sexually charged venue. Gender neutral pricing would create an imbalance; too many men and too few women. This is not an ideal situation for our core demographic and neither parties would feel comfortable. In creating an enjoyable environment for women, solo men are only welcome on select days and gendered pricing is in effect. Various efforts are made to make everyone feel welcome at the club, regardless of their gender, sexual orientation and/or relationship status. However, certain measures must be taken to reflect the realities of human sexuality and protect the safety of our valued guests.”
Some couples and single women simply enjoy Oasis Aqualounge for the relaxing and sophisticated spa environment or enjoy nude sunbathing with no tan lines on our private deck. Others will choose to enjoy the amenities and atmosphere, and have sex with the person they came with – a stimulating space away from home to spice things up! Still others will meet people and enjoy those new encounters. Come with an open mind but don’t feel obligated to go beyond your comfort level.
If a single women enjoys being with couples, we recommend that she give Unicorn Night a try. It takes place monthly on the second Saturday of the month. There is a unicorn meet and greet and many of the unicorns have become friends and attend regularly.
We hear great feedback from single women who were initially nervous about coming to Oasis on their own. They report that they felt comfortable and were able to make new friends no matter what day or evening they came. Ask at the door if one of our hosts is on duty as they would be happy to introduce you to like minded people.
We understand that guests can sometimes feel over stimulated especially in their first visits to Oasis. If you want to avoid being propositioned by others during your visit at Oasis Aqualounge, we now have an option to indicate that you are not interested in being approached for play. Red wristbands are available at the front pay station on Monday, Tuesday and Wednesdays (when solo men can attend) as a complimentary service.
If you see someone wearing a red wristband, please do not approach them to ask for sex or if they are interested in playing. You may say hello, smile or enjoy a small conversation, but in general, we ask that you leave that guest alone. Sometimes guests with red wristbands prefer to do the asking, rather than the other way around.
If you are wearing a red wristband, and you feel that someone is propositioning you inappropriately, please mention it to an Oasis staff member, and they will make sure that the person is made aware of the meaning of the wristband.
A few events have a dress code, such as Oasis After Dark (a Fetish event the first Sunday evening of every month) or CFNM, where men must be nude from 8pm on. For more information for single men, click here. We recommend you always visit the event listing for the day you want to attend for entry policies. You must always be 19+ to visit.
We want to respect the comfort and privacy of our guests with regards to photography or video recording at the club. We understand that sometimes guests would like to preserve their visit with a photo. If the club is relatively quiet and can provide a space where no other guests would be interrupted, it might be possible. On those occasions, please ask the Manager or a staff member to assist. If one of our staff is available to supervise, to ensure no one else will be in the shot, we’ll do our best to accommodate.
Please note that all pictures posted on our website site were taken with the explicit permission of the subjects. We ask that no unsupervised photography takes place inside Oasis Aqualounge.
The area boasts lots of foot traffic at all hours and there are over 100 restaurants serving all kinds of local and international food within walking distance. Here are a few of our favourites:
The Keg Mansion on Jarvis (short walk from the club – steaks etc.)
Sushi – Daio Japanese Restaurant on Carlton (not a big place but really nice owners and they have good sushi)
Café California – a mediterranean restaurant on Church Street – a bit further of a walk (maybe 6 blocks) or a short car or cab ride away. Some weekends they feature a piano player at their baby grand piano and they have a patio in summer so you can enjoy dining outside.
Kinka Izakaya – formerly called Guu, this is a Japanese restaurant (not just sushi, lots of cool dishes, etc.) and is a real experience. They have communal tables or separate tables and there is lots of joint staff calling to welcome everyone as they walk into the restaurant–not a quiet place, but the food is different but really good.
Ho Jan Chinese Restaurant – great chinese food – right near to Daio Sushi restaurant on Carlton
W Burger – a gourmet burger restaurant – just west of Yonge on College (Carlton is College it just changes names at Yonge) – you choose your bun, protein, and from a bunch of toppings
Fran’s Restaurant – a 50’s style diner that is open 24 hours and located right near College/Carlton and Yonge Street.
If you don’t book a room in advance, please tell the front desk upon check-in that you are an Oasis customer to ensure the discount is applied to the room.
Women are free or discounted most days, so the only day women with Student ID get a further discount is some Thursdays. We offer men student discounts for their admission on Mondays and couples where the male has the student ID a couples discount on some Thursdays, like Naked Karaoke night. Check the event listing under pricing to see if that event offers student pricing. Student ID must show a valid date. Student ID with no year or date on it will not be accepted.
The first is to leave cash with your name on it at either bar. You can start a cash tab with a minimum of $40 cash at any time. The bartenders will remove the money for each drink as you order. Don’t worry, they won’t take any extra for a tip, that will be at your discretion as you deplete the cash provided or to decide at the end of the night.
The second method to open a tab is to leave a credit card and a piece of ID at the bar and a tab will be established in your name. Transactions on Canadian CHIP cards won’t be processed against the card, it is just held for security until you are ready to settle up. When you pay your tab, you can still choose to pay by cash, or with a VISA, MasterCard, American Express or Debit card. For credit cards from outside Canada only, bartenders will do a $40 pre-authorization against the card when you open the tab. That pre-authorization will be cleared and only the amount you spend on your tab will be charged through when you close the tab.
The tab system in the upstairs bar is linked to the downstairs bar, so you can order drinks from either bar or from any staff providing cocktail service to the pool area and still put it against your tab. This system enables you to leave your valuables in your locker while you enjoy the facilities. Cheers!
Are you a professional marriage or relationship counselor, psychologist, therapist or professional who helps woman and couples enhance their relationship? Oasis holds periodic professional outreach sessions where we help professionals understand what Oasis has to offer and how couples can enhance their relationship and how woman can develop and express their sexuality. If you are interested in attending such an event, email us at email@example.com for information on our next planned event.
Please email us at firstname.lastname@example.org for a full list of our accessibility policies and for support person rates for the event you would like to attend. Alternatively you may write us at 231 Mutual Street, Toronto, Ontario, M5B 2B4. For verbal service, please call the club at (416) 599-7665 and ask to speak to a Manager to discuss our disability policies. Oasis is an inclusive facility for anyone 19+ and we hope to see you soon.
Customer Service Staff will ask how a Trans guest identifies in order to charge them the right admission fee.
No one at Oasis Aqualounge, either staff or guest, shall refer to a Trans person using Transphobic words, such as Tranny or ‘too butch to be a girl.’
No one at Oasis Aqualounge, either staff or guest, shall put a Trans guest on the spot by asking for their ‘real’ name.
Staff shall ask the Trans guest, “What are your preferred pronouns?” Customer Service Staff or host at the pay station shall apologize if they use the incorrect pronoun to describe/speak to someone in the Trans community.
If a guest behaves maliciously towards a Trans guest, that guest will be reprimanded by management. Please be sure to advise staff if other guests are not treating you with respect.
For more information, please contact email@example.com
While we at Oasis support such liberal values and our promotional team–the AquaFlirts–attend various marches in support of the cannabis community, to maintain our liquor license, we have to follow the law and therefore can’t permit any 420/cannabis use on the property.
More questions? Just email us at firstname.lastname@example.org