That is one of our most frequently asked questions. Oasis Aqualounge offers a clothing-optional experience but like everything at the club, it is at your own comfort level. No one is required to be naked or remain naked. You will be provided with a locker to store your belongings so you may bring outfits, swimwear, lingerie-whatever tickles your fancy! Our guests rock a variety of looks. If suntanning/swimming in the buff is not right for you, feel free to bring your swimsuit. Or, we sell a variety of sexy clothing in our Oasis Aquashop
If you are planning for a weekend evening out, club wear or sexy lingerie is perfectly acceptable. Some events are themed so refer to our website for ideas and inspiration. Customers who enjoy the Oasis dungeon or special fetish events love to bring their fetish outfits–anything from lace to latex is welcome. We are a body-positive establishment, meaning all shapes and sizes are welcome and admired. The most important aspect is that you feel comfortable and sexy during your visit so wear (or don’t wear) what makes you feel amazing. Enjoy the freedom to express your own individuality.
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Anywhere you want, other than in the hot tub.
We have a co-ed locker room and lockers are available at no charge on most days/nights. You can use our complimentary locks with waterproof key chain, or you can bring your own lock–whatever you prefer. Note that personal locks left on after closing will be cut off.
Your door fee makes you a member for the day of your visit (as a private club everyone visiting is required to be a member) and gives you use of all the facilities, until closing time! You do NOT have to buy an annual membership to visit Oasis, just pay the door fee for the event/day you are attending.
We supply plush towels, condoms, sunscreen and pool side service. You also have in and out privileges, so you can spend the afternoon in the pool, go out for dinner (there are over 100 restaurants in walking distance, for a list of our favourites CLICK HERE) and return for more music, dancing and…
Your ID, of course. Just like all Ontario bars, everyone needs to have their ID with them to confirm they are over 19.
For enjoying the outside pool and deck, we suggest sunglasses, although we sell Oasis branded sunglasses if you forget. You can bring your own sunscreen, but again, Oasis has a sunscreen station by the pool where we provide complimentary sunscreen. Some guests like to wear flip flops and a robe while walking around the club (or for going out front to our smoking area–of course, Oasis also sells flip flops and robes in our store and we make available some complimentary loaner robes (our smoking jackets) and have outside heaters in the smoking area and leading to the pool). We do work hard to ensure the club’s temperature is comfortable for nudity year round.
Our Dungeon is equipped with a swing, St. Andrew’s Cross and other dungeon furniture, but for hygienic reasons, you are invited to bring your own ‘toys’ like floggers, restraints, etc. for use with your partner.
Food and drinks are the only extra costs, along with items from our store. While we don’t sell food ourselves, we do provide bar snacks and our staff are happy to provide take-out menus from local restaurants
and place orders for you, so you can stay naked by the pool.
Our store offers items appropriate for the season. That includes baseball hats, sunglasses, flip flops, robes, bikinis, and cute Oasis booty shorts and tank tops. Every time you slip one on, you’ll remember the fun you had at Oasis! We offer additional branded merchandise at our online store, visit the Oasis AquaShop
. Most of the items in the store are also available at the club.
Yes, we keep the pool nice and warm, 100 degrees in winter, cooler in the hot weather–always a temperature appropriate for leisurely enjoying the water. You’ll love the warmth under the cool night air. The pool is open year round–a great place to heat things up.
Our music is intended to set the mood in the background, without overwhelming your senses. Our guests tend to be over thirty, and our music reflects that. But we welcome requests. Throughout the day we play lounge music throughout the bar and play areas (different music in the different spaces). We like to keep the sauna and hot tub spa area quiet so you can enjoy the serenity.
Oasis is open 7 days and nights a week. Occasionally, we work with outside promoters but almost all events are organized by our own marketing team. If you wish to rent the venue or our dungeon for a private photo or video shoot, we invite you to contact us to discuss rates and availability. We are also open to working with groups and offer group discounts. Please contact us at email@example.com
Swingers are always welcome at Oasis, and our recent customer survey shows that about 60% of Oasis customers are swingers or at least open to considering sexual encounters outside their primary partner. The upscale on-premise play areas are a major feature of the club. The atmosphere is relaxing yet stimulating and there are lots of spaces for conversation to meet new friends. Note that we have an ‘Ask once’ policy. Meaning no individual or couple can approach you more than once during your visit if you are not interested. We find our guests are very respectful of the fact that only some people are interested in swinging. Many Oasis guests use Oasis as a couples club, to enhance their own relationship by watching, being watched and enjoying the sexually charged atmosphere.
Not sure if swinging is for you? Join us on the first and third Thursday of each month or the second Saturday afternoon each month for First Taste, our program which includes a tour of the club along with a presentation on sex club etiquette and the lifestyle and a conversation with Oasis couples who will share their experience with swinging and answer your questions.
Are you interested in joining online conversations about Oasis Aqualounge? Would you like to ask questions/engage in conversations with other guests? If you are in the Lifestyle and would like to meet other like-minded couples, check out the forums page on Cafe Desire-where Canada comes to play! We also have a group thread on Fetlife, which is geared towards those interested in exploring fetishes and kinks. Those are great sites for meeting like minded people and arranging to meet them in person at Oasis. Of course there are many others, including SDC, Okay Cupid, and many more.
Oasis offers complimentary cards with ‘We met at Oasis” and pens at both bars so you can exchange information with others that you meet that you want to stay in touch with. Whether you meet new friends or friends with benefits, its always great to enjoy conversations with others that share your sexually liberated values.
Oasis provides free condoms and lube packets readily available in the play areas for your enjoyment. When a couple is together at Oasis, the staff do not know whether they are in a long term relationship, recently dating, or just met at the club. So we are not able to judge how the relationship is being conducted, nor do we wish to. We focus on making sure that everything at the club is fully consensual, the details are up to you. As adults, we trust your judgement in choosing the best protection for you and your partner.
No. How you met, or how long you’ve known each other is between the two of you. Different nights at Oasis are designed for different genders. Most Thursday, Friday, Saturday and Bonus Sundays are designed for single females and FM or FF couples, basically women and their partners, whether their partner is a male or female. For woman/woman couples, you are only charged the women rate x 2. Single Men are welcome on Mondays (under 35 years old), Tuesdays, Wednesdays and some Sunday evenings. Private events may restrict entry to their own guest lists.
“The management at Oasis Aqualounge strongly believe in gender equality and sexual freedom. While our pricing structure and policies seemingly encourage gender stereotyping, it is an unavoidable reality of hetero-centered sex clubs. Non gendered pricing would be the ideal choice, given our liberated stance. However, throughout the years, we have come to understand that of our guests, cis males behave differently than cis females, especially when visiting a clothing optional, sexually charged venue. Gender neutral pricing would create an imbalance; too many men and too few women. This is not an ideal situation for our core demographic and neither parties would feel comfortable. In creating an enjoyable environment for women, solo men are only welcome on select days and gendered pricing is in effect. Various efforts are made to make everyone feel welcome at the club, regardless of their gender, sexual orientation and/or relationship status. However, certain measures must be made to reflect the realities of human sexuality and protect the safety of our valued guests.”
Oasis Aqualounge attracts guests who are open-minded, curious and adventurous. Couples who attend Oasis are usually interested in exploring new ways to spice up their relationship. The average age of our guests is between thirty and fifty, but anyone 19 and over is welcome. Friday and Saturday nights tend to draw more of a night club crowd, so bring your A game and feel free to dress to impress, dress to seduce or enjoy a clothing optional experience!
We believe that variety is the spice of life-in sex, love and looks! Oasis Aqualounge provides an environment that is welcoming to everyone. Physicality is subjective and true beauty shines through every individual in it’s own unique way. Confidence, curiosity and a sense of adventure is definitely sexy! What can be more attractive than that?
No, you do not have to have sex. Everything must be 100% consensual; you are not obligated to do anything that makes you uncomfortable.
Some couples and single women simply enjoy Oasis Aqualounge for the relaxing and sophisticated spa environment or enjoy nude sunbathing with no tan lines on our private deck. Others will choose to enjoy the amenities and atmosphere, and have sex with the person they came with – a stimulating space away from home to spice things up! Still others will meet people and enjoy those new encounters. Come with an open mind but don’t feel obligated to go beyond your comfort level.
Not if you don’t want to. You’re welcome to just relax by the pool, or use any of the facilities – whatever is most comfortable for you.
If a single women enjoys being with couples, we recommend that she give Unicorn Night a try. It takes place monthly on the second Saturday of the month. There is a unicorn meet and greet and many of the unicorns have become friends and attend regularly.
We hear great feedback from single women who were initially nervous about coming to Oasis on their own. They report that they felt comfortable and were able to make new friends no matter what day or evening they came. Ask at the door if one of our hosts is on duty as they would be happy to introduce you to like minded people.
We understand that guests can sometimes feel over stimulated especially in their first visits to Oasis. If you want to avoid being propositioned by others during your visit at Oasis Aqualounge, we now have an option to indicate that you are not interested in being approached for play. Red wristbands are available at the front pay station on Monday, Tuesday and Wednesdays (when solo men can attend) as a complimentary service.
If you see someone wearing a red wristband, please do not approach them to ask for sex or if they are interested in playing. You may say hello, smile or enjoy a small conversation, but in general, we ask that you leave that guest alone. Sometimes guests with red wristbands prefer to do the asking, rather than the other way around.
If you are wearing a red wristband, and you feel that someone is propositioning you inappropriately, please mention it to an Oasis staff member, and they will make sure that the person is made aware of the meaning of the wristband.
Single men are welcome at some events on Sunday evenings, check the event calendar for details. Single men are always welcome on Student Mondays if they are 35 or under and all ages every Tuesday and Hot Springs Wednesday. Toronto has many great options for single men on other nights, but Oasis Aqualounge on Thursday, Friday, Saturday and daytime Sundays is designed for women and their partners only. Some events have a dress code, such as Oasis After Dark (a Fetish event the first Sunday evening of every month). For more information for single men, click here
. Visit the event listing for the day you want to visit for entry policies. You must always be 19+ to visit.
We want to respect the comfort and privacy of our guests with regards to photography or video recording at the club. We understand that sometimes guests would like to preserve their visit with a photo. If the club is relatively quiet and can provide a space where no other guests would be interrupted, it might be possible. On those occasions, please ask the Manager or a staff member to assist. If one of our staff is available to supervise to ensure no one else will be in the shot, we’ll do our best to accommodate.
Please note that all pictures posted on our website site were taken with the explicit permission of the subjects. We ask that no unsupervised photography takes place inside Oasis Aqualounge.
We certainly encourage you to unwind and disconnect at Oasis, but understand if you need to keep a phone with you. Please be sure to turn your ringer off so as not to disturb others and we ask that you take or place any calls outside of the play areas and ideally outside the club. Our guests like the fact that the club is an Oasis from the outside world–so please don’t let your phone or conversations disrupt their enjoyment of the space.
Yes, right behind the club there is a pay parking lot. Access to it is off Jarvis just south of Carlton (navigate to 308 Jarvis Street). The lot is big so if you want to park right by the club, drive to the North West corner of the lot and look for the 30 foot Oasis Aqualounge mural across the back wall of the pool area. Precise Parklink operates this lot and there are 24 hour pay machines which give you a ticket to put on your dashboard. Rates are $14 for daytime to 6pm and then $10 for after 6pm to 4am.
We are a short walk from the College Subway Station (on TTC Line 1). Just walk east past the old Maple Leaf Gardens (now Loblaw and Ryerson Mattamy Athletic Centre) until you get to Mutual Street . We are the big historic Mansion on the south east corner–you can’t miss us. Our entrance is on the Mutual side. You can also take the street car east along Carlton to Mutual street if you prefer. Click here for information on taking the TTC
Yes of course! The Supreme Court of Canada recognized the right of adults to have consensual sex in private clubs. Oasis Aqualounge is fully licensed and legal.
Yes, Oasis Aqualounge is a private members club. But everyone 19+ can join, and your membership fee is included in the admission price.
Our entrance is on Mutual street, which is a funny one way street (splits in two directions just before the club). It is easier to navigate to the corner of Jarvis and Carlton, There is a large well lit parking lot right behind Oasis that you can access from Jarvis, just South of Carlton on the West side. If you drive to the Northwest corner of that lot you will see a wall with a big Oasis mural painted on it. That is the back wall of the pool area and you have found us.
There are some great sexy stores within walking distance as well. Visit Seduction on Yonge Street; a boutique with two floors of sexy products and outfits. The Stag Shop at Yonge and Shuter for fun, flirty accessories, toys and sexy lingerie.
The area boasts lots of foot traffic at all hours and there are over 100 restaurants serving all kinds of local and international food within walking distance. Here are a few of our favourites:
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The Keg Mansion on Jarvis (short walk from the club – steaks etc.)
Sushi – Daio Japanese Restaurant on Carlton (not a big place but really nice owners and they have good sushi)
Café California – a mediterranean restaurant on Church Street – a bit further of a walk (maybe 6 blocks) or a short car or cab ride away. Some weekends they feature a piano player at their baby grand piano and they have a patio in summer so you can enjoy dining outside.
Kinka Izakaya – formerly called Guu, this is a Japanese restaurant (not just sushi, lots of cool dishes, etc.) and is a real experience. They have communal tables or separate tables and there is lots of joint staff calling to welcome everyone as they walk into the restaurant–not a quiet place, but the food is different but really good.
Ho Jan Chinese Restaurant – great chinese food – right near to Daio Sushi restaurant on Carlton
W Burger – a gourmet burger restaurant – just west of Yonge on College (Carlton is College it just changes names at Yonge) – you choose your bun, protein, and from a bunch of toppings
Fran’s Restaurant – a 50’s style diner that is open 24 hours and located right near College/Carlton and Yonge Street.
We’ve got a special rate negotiated with a hotel right across the parking lot from us! The Ramada Plaza Hotel
offers discounted rooms to Oasis guests. Call the hotel directly at (416) 977-4823 (not the centralized reservation line) and ask for the Oasis discount code LKOA. Ramada Hotels are in the process of updating their online reservation system so until the code gets working again online, you are asked to call the hotel directly to get the discount when booking.
If you don’t book a room in advance, please tell the front desk upon check-in that you are an Oasis customer to ensure the discount is applied to the room.
Group discounts on Oasis door fees are available for five or more couples visiting together–call us at (416) 599-7665 or email firstname.lastname@example.org
Women are free or discounted most days, so the only day women with Student ID get a further discount is some Thursdays. We offer men student discounts for their admission on Mondays and couples where the male has the student ID a couples discount on some Thursdays, like Naked Karaoke night. Check the event listing under pricing to see if that event offers student pricing. Student ID must show a valid date. Student ID with no year or date on it will not be accepted.
There are two ways to run a tab at Oasis so that you don’t need to worry about accessing your wallet as you go out to the pool, or patio area or are playing around the club.
The first is to leave cash with your name on it at either bar. You can start a cash tab with a minimum of $40 cash at any time. The bartenders will remove the money for each drink as you order. Don’t worry, they won’t take any extra for a tip, that will be at your discretion as you deplete the cash provided or to decide at the end of the night.
The second method to open a tab is to leave a credit card and a piece of ID at the bar and a tab will be established in your name. Transactions on Canadian CHIP cards won’t be processed against the card, it is just held for security until you are ready to settle up. When you pay your tab, you can still choose to pay by cash, or with a VISA, MasterCard, American Express or Debit card. For credit cards from outside Canada only, bartenders will do a $40 pre-authorization against the card when you open the tab. That pre-authorization will be cleared and only the amount you spend on your tab will be charged through when you close the tab.
The tab system in the upstairs bar is linked to the downstairs bar, so you can order drinks from either bar or from any staff providing cocktail service to the pool area and still put it against your tab. This system enables you to leave your valuables in your locker while you enjoy the facilities. Cheers!
Are you a professional marriage or relationship counselor, psychologist, therapist or professional that helps woman and couples enhance their relationship? Oasis holds periodic professional outreach sessions where we help professionals understand what Oasis has to offer and how couples can enhance their relationship and how woman can develop and express their sexuality. If you are interested in attending such an event, email us at email@example.com for information on our next planned event.
We wrote an entire blog about what we know about the 9,000 square foot former home that is now Oasis Aqualounge. To read it, CLICK HERE
Oasis welcomes persons with disabilities and is committed to providing accessible customer service. Unfortunately our Heritage building is not currently wheelchair accessible, but we are happy to talk with those unable to navigate the steps to get inside about options by talking with you outside our main entrance off Mutual Street during daylight hours. We do permit support persons at a reduced rate and that rate will depend on the date and gender of the support person as our rates vary for the different events. We welcome service animals in the facility.
Please email us at firstname.lastname@example.org for a full list of our accessibility policies and for support person rates for the event you would like to attend. Alternatively you may write us at 231 Mutual Street, Toronto, Ontario, M5B 2B4. For verbal service, please call the club at (416) 599-7665 and ask to speak to a Manager to discuss our disability policies. Oasis is an inclusive facility for anyone 19+ and we hope to see you soon.
Oasis Aqualounge has spa facilities such as a hot tub and outdoor heated pool that require bathers to shower with soap and water before entering. Maintaining good hygiene is an important part of a sexy and comfortable experience at the club. We recommend treating your visit to Oasis like you would when preparing for a date. Oasis has shower gel, soap, shampoo and conditioner located in the showers on the main floor. You may help yourself or bring your own toiletries. By taking that extra effort in your appearance and hygiene, your confidence will shine and others around you will appreciate your sex appeal.
Oasis Aqualounge is an inclusive facility, welcoming of all orientations and gender identities. The admission fee for trans folks is exactly the same as the admission for cis gender women. We provide the lowest and most accommodating fee of because we understand that trans folks are often marginalized and need a space and supportive place to express their sexuality. Unlike cis gender men, trans folks may attend Oasis either alone or as a couple for any event excluding private events that are not open to the general public.
Customer Service Staff will ask how a Trans guest identifies in order to charge them the right admission fee.
Customer Service Staff or host at the pay station shall apologize if they use the incorrect pronoun to describe/speak to someone in the Trans community.
No one at Oasis Aqualounge, either staff or guest, shall refer to a Trans person using Transphobic words, such as Tranny or ‘too butch to be a girl.’
No one at Oasis Aqualounge, either staff or guest, shall put a Trans guest on the spot by asking for their ‘real’ name.
Staff shall ask the Trans guest, “What are your preferred pronouns?”
If a guest behaves maliciously towards a Trans guest, that guest will be reprimanded by management. Please be sure to advise staff if other guests are not treating you with respect.
For more information, please contact email@example.com
While we at Oasis support such liberal values and our promotional team–the AquaFlirts–attend various marches in support of the cannabis community, to maintain our liquor license, we have to follow the law and therefore can’t permit any 420/cannabis use on the property.
Most of the Oasis play spaces are either semi-private or “not-so-private”. For those who prefer a private play space, Oasis has one private room on the fourth floor that is available to book for a maximum of two hours. No reservations will be taken over the phone or by email, you may only book the room once you are at the club. For details on how the private room works, CLICK HERE