About Oasis

Oasis Aqualounge is a water themed adult’s playground in downtown Toronto. This beautifully restored 19th century mansion offers an exciting spa, lounge and vacation environment where you can spice things up, day or night. Unwind in our hot-tub, dry off in our sauna and take a dip in our year round outdoor heated pool in a private sunny courtyard. Enjoy a drink from one of our two bars, on our poolside patio or in the beautifully decorated play areas spanning four floors where you can meet people who share your interests or spend your time alone together. Check out our BLOG page for the latest in Oasis stories, event recaps, media, testimonials and love from our customers. An adventurous place to sun, soak and explore your sexuality.

Enhance your relationship and reignite your passion at Oasis Aqualounge, open every day of the week! Find your favourite type of event based on your relationship status and what you’re into on our events page. We’re a team of over 40 people who love what Oasis is about and we’ve made it our mission to be your oh-oh-Oasis in the centre of Toronto. If you have more questions, scroll down for our contact information or read answers on our frequently asked questions page. For pricing information, check out our dedicated pricing page. Finally, to receive our weekly newsletter detailing upcoming events at the club and around the Greater Toronto Area, sign up for our newsletter on the blog page. We hope to see you soon!

Our Mission

Oasis Aqualounge strives to provide its members with an upscale, sexually liberated and clothing-optional space that caters to the needs of women and their partners. We provide a setting where couples can connect emotionally and sexually to enhance their relationships. For women, we offer a safe, judgment-free environment where they can explore their sexual curiosities with opportunities to interact with other women, couples and single men, depending on the event.

We believe in excellent customer service, hygienic facilities and creating an environment that inspires relaxation, intimacy and play from early in the day until late in the evening. We aim to ignite passions with an offering of titillating events that are imaginative, educational and seductive. We believe in creating a community that provides a freedom from everyday life and the opportunity to connect with a lover, a friend or a chance encounter. Oasis Aqualounge offers a unique combination of a spa, lounge and dance environment that allows everyone to find a space where they can feel at ease and release their inhibitions.

We believe that our current society stifles sexuality between consenting adults. In particular, we want to encourage women to move past limiting beliefs and body consciousness. By providing the chance to explore one’s fantasies, our guests can gain better awareness of their desires, enjoy a rewarding sex life and meet other like-minded individuals. Come, join us.

Your Key Contacts

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Miss F

Marketing Director and Event Producer

Miss F is the Director of Marketing and the Event Producer for Oasis Aqualounge.

She is the sole producer, promoter and host of Sapphic Aquatica-an exclusive bi-monthly  event for queer women and all trans identities, held bimonthly, on the last Sunday evening.

Miss F enjoys writing press releases for the club, engaging with the media and writing creative works of erotic fiction, blogs and articles for the Oasis newsletter. She has been interviewed for CIUT 89.5 FM, Proud FM, Xtra, Globe and Mail, The Toronto Sun, The National Post, VICE Magazine  and Sirius XM Satellite Radio.  She has provided formats for online programs featuring the club and networks with various sex educators, health care professionals and media personalities.

She produces ‘Sex School’;  a monthly event on the first Friday of the month, ‘‘Money Shot’- an evening of porn & erotic photography,  ‘Swordplay’; an evening for bisexual men and produces a few Saturday night themed events at the club and ‘MEGA Party’; held on the 3rd Sunday night monthly.  She is also involved in fundraising activities for organizations in the realm of sexuality/ wellness and is a part of the colorful LGBTQ+ community.

Submissions, questions and media inquiries are always welcome and can be sent to: fatima@oasisaqualounge.com. Follow her on Twitter @catchfatima.

General Manager

Dylan Tower moved from New Brunswick to Toronto in 2008 to pursue an education in mechanical engineering at the University of Toronto. He joined the Oasis team in 2013 and worked in customer service and as a cleaner.  As a volunteer coordinator and educator at U of T’s  Sexual Education Centre, Dylan organized a massive student event at Oasis Aqualounge in January 2013. This party made headlines all over the world and became best known as “The U of T Student Orgy.” The event drew hundreds of people and the media attention that followed put Oasis on the map. Dylan became the producer of Sass After Class–a weekly feature for those between the ages of 19-35.

In April 2014, Dylan was promoted to General Manager and oversees the internal workings of the club. Having worked in all the different areas, his skill and knowledge of Oasis is definitely an asset to the business. His love for the venue can be surmised as such; “Oasis allows anyone who is willing to come in (to)  express themselves in a group of non-judgmental, diverse, and encouraging peers. Once you step inside, everyone is equal. ”

His future plans include helping to grow the business, while continuing to upgrade the amenities creating the best experience possible for guests. For general manager inquires about Oasis Aqualounge, please contact: dylan@oasisaqualounge.com

Founding Partner

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Oasis was founded by a small group of sex positive women and couples who had a vision for an adult playground and are thrilled with how it worked out. Judy Kaye is one of those founding partners.

Judy built and maintains the Oasis website, the newsletter customer outreach, worked with designers to create the Oasis Aquashop clothing line and deals with outside supplier partners to keep the business growing and thriving while being a good neighbour with positive ties to the surrounding community.

Like all Oasis partners, Judy also hosts some of her favourite events. In addition to holding an MBA with experience starting and growing other businesses before Oasis, she is an accomplished pole dancer and is always eager to teach guests some fun new pole moves. She and her husband enjoy travelling around the world to other clubs gathering ideas to bring back home, to continue to make Oasis a leader in unique fun and sexy programming. Between meetings, you’ll often find Judy in the pool.