Visiting Oasis as a Solo Man
Thinking about visiting Oasis Aqualounge on your own? You’re very welcome! This page will help you know what to expect, when you can visit, and how to make the most of your time at Oasis.
When Can Solo Men Visit?
Solo men age 19+ are welcome at Oasis every Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday and Sunday. You can simply pay admission at the door or book your ticket online in advance.
Fridays and Saturdays are reserved for women and their partners, so solo men are not admitted on those days.
Click here to view the Oasis Event Calendar and find an event that interests you.
A Few Things to Know Before You Visit
Like everyone who visits Oasis, solo men are expected to follow our club rules and respect the boundaries of other guests. We recommend watching the short rules video on our FAQ page before your first visit so you know what to expect.
Except for Tuesdays, access to the third-floor playrooms is reserved for women and their partners. Solo men may enter these areas when invited by a woman. When this policy is in effect, we’ll post a notice at the bottom of the stairs and have a host upstairs to help everyone understand where they are welcome.
This policy was developed in response to feedback from women in our community. Some women enjoy having solo men nearby, while others feel more comfortable having some spaces reserved for women and partners.
That’s why we offer a mix of spaces.
Even when the third-floor restriction is in effect, solo men are welcome to enjoy the many other areas of Oasis, including the ballroom, dungeon, pool and outdoor patio, lower bar and spa area, and smoking area.
Our goal isn’t to suggest that solo men are less respectful than other guests. We work hard to maintain respectful behavior from everyone who visits Oasis. Rather, different spaces create different atmospheres, and our aim is to provide options so that as many guests as possible can find an environment where they feel comfortable.
We appreciate your understanding and cooperation in helping us create a welcoming, fun and respectful environment for everyone.
Want Some Help Meeting People?
If you’re hoping to meet women at Oasis but aren’t sure how to approach someone or start a conversation, we can help with that too.
Join the Men’s Meeting at 9:30 p.m. each Tuesday, where men can get practical advice about meeting people, approaching women respectfully, reading social cues and navigating Oasis with confidence.
We’ve also created a few fun videos especially for solo men. They’re a great introduction to meeting people and making connections at Oasis:
We have some additional tips in this blog.
If you still have questions, feel free to email us at info@oasisaqualounge.com
We invite you to sign up for our Oasis Insider emails by submitting your email below: