Solo Men

This page gives you all the information you need if you would like to attend Oasis Aqualounge as a Solo Man (without a partner).

Solo Men of all ages over 19 are welcome to attend events every Monday until 8pm, Tuesday all day and evening (11am to 3am) and Wednesday all day and evening (11am to 3am). The cost for a solo man at Oasis is $80 and that includes HST. You can pay at the door.

Solo Men between 19 and 35 years of age may stay after 7pm until 3am on Monday nights, as Monday is our evening dedicated to the younger crowd. If you are a student, please be sure to bring your student card to receive a discounted admission price on Mondays. Solo men are NOT permitted at Oasis on Thursdays, Fridays, Saturdays and from 11am to 8pm on Sundays.

Sunday Nights, beginning at 8pm, Oasis offers a variety of events. Many Sunday evening events welcome solo men of all ages, however some are for women only (Sapphic Aquatica), so be sure to check the Oasis events calendar for the date you’d like to visit and read the event listing, as it will let you know if solo men are welcome at that event.

Click this Link to go to the Oasis Event Calendar

Solo men, like all Oasis guests, must follow the rules at all times.

Solo Men are restricted during some of the events from visiting the third floor play rooms unless invited by a woman. If the restriction is in place, Oasis will post a notice at the base of the stairs outside the dungeon and will also have a host at the top of the stairs to remind guests of the rule. We put this policy in place at the request of the women who attend Oasis.

Some women enjoy playing in front of other men, while others prefer to play with only women or other couples nearby. So, on nights, Oasis offers play spaces (the ballroom, dungeon, outside, etc.) that are visible by all attending, including single men, as well as play spaces where the single men are not invited (3rd floor).

It is not the behavior of the men that the women are concerned about.  Oasis works hard to ensure all guests are respectful, it is that having the single men nearby changes the atmosphere, and some women enjoy that atmosphere while playing, while others do not.

If you’d like some tips on how to meet women at Oasis, we invite you to join us for The Right Approach, a short workshop we hold the 4th Wednesday of each month at 9:30pm. Admission to the workshop is included in your door fee and we share tips and etiquette for meeting like minded friends while at Oasis.

We also offer some speed dating events which are a great way to meet lots of people in a short amount of time.

If you still have questions, feel free to email us at