This page gives you all the information you’ll need if you would like to attend Oasis Aqualounge as a Solo Man (without a partner).

Solo Men of all ages over 19 are welcome to attend Oasis events every Monday until 7pm, Tuesday all day and evening (11am to 3am) and Wednesday all day and evening (11am to 3am), as well as most Sunday nights after 8pm. The cost for a solo man at Oasis is $80 and that includes HST. You can pay at the door.

Solo Men between 19 and 35 years of age may stay after 7pm until 3am on Monday nights, as Monday is our evening dedicated to the younger crowd. If you are a student, please be sure to bring your current valid student card to receive the discount admission price offered to students on select days. Solo men are NOT permitted at Oasis on Thursdays, Fridays, Saturdays and from 11am to 8pm on Sundays. Those days and hours are reserved for women and their partners.

Sunday Nights, beginning at 8pm, Oasis offers a variety of events. Most Sunday evening events welcome solo men of all ages, however a few Sunday Night events are for women only (Sapphic Aquatica–held 5 times a year), so be sure to check the Oasis events calendar for the date you plan to visit and read the event listing, as it will let you know if solo men are welcome at that event.

Click this Link to go to the Oasis Event Calendar

Solo men, like all Oasis guests, must follow the rules at all times. Check out the rules video on our FAQ page to know the rules in advance.

Solo Men are restricted during some of the events from visiting the third floor play rooms unless invited by a woman. If the restriction is in place, Oasis will post a notice at the base of the stairs outside the dungeon and will also have a host at the top of the stairs to remind guests of the rule. We put this policy in place at the request of the women who attend Oasis. Some women enjoy playing in front of other men, while others prefer to play with only women or other couples nearby. Even on those days where third floor restrictions are in place, Oasis offers spaces all guests, including solo men, can access and enjoy (the ballroom, dungeon, the pool and outdoor patio, the lower bar and spa area, the smoking area, etc.).

It is not the behaviour of the men that the women are concerned about, Oasis works hard to ensure all guests are respectful, it is that having the single men nearby changes the atmosphere, and some women enjoy that atmosphere while playing, while others do not. So we make play spaces available to all as well as some for women and partners only. We appreciate your understanding of these restrictions as our goal is to make Oasis a fun and exciting atmosphere where it is comfortable for all kinds of sexual encounters to take place.

If you’d like some tips on how to meet women at Oasis, we invite you to join us for The Right Approach, a short workshop we hold the 4th Wednesday of each month at 10pm. Admission to the workshop is included in your door fee and we share tips and etiquette for meeting like minded friends, women and couples while at Oasis. Can’t make it to the live workshop, here are some initial tips at this video we made for you:

The Right Approach Video

We have some additional tips in this blog.

We also offer some speed dating events which are a great way to meet lots of people in a short amount of time. Check out our calendar for the next speed dating opportunity (generally on the same night as The Right Approach workshop at a Wednesday Hot Springs).

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