Open relationships inspire partners to embrace diverse identities within an ethically non-monogamous framework, such as the hotwife dynamic or dating a unicorn. But this unique freedom can also empower individuals to transition between roles, guided by their personal desires.
In particular, bisexual women who are in open relationships may enjoy the idea of unicorn with another couple, while still maintaining their hotwife status. Luckily, no rules are restricting the transition from hotwife to unicorn, even if it’s just for one night!
Embracing A Unicorn Identity as the Object of Desire
For women who assume a particular identity with an open relationship, such as a hotwife or a cuckqueans, exploring being a unicorn allows her the be centered, as the object of desire, between a couple.
And especially for women who tend to pursue and initiate or who are more voyeuristic, transitioning into a unicorn can provide an erotic shift in power dynamics.
Identities Can Be Fluid with Freedom to Explore
Open, ethically non-monogamous (ENM) relationships are designed to allow for growth and evolution between partners. While this concept can also exist within monogamous relationships, the transition between roles in ENM relationships tends to be more seamless because the open nature of the relationship has already been established.
For example, a swinger couple that permits extraneous sexual activity outside of their core relationship could conceive more easily the idea of the female playing with another couple, known as a ‘unicorn.’
This understanding may seem less challenging for non-monogamous couples, encouraging confidence in exploring these relationship dynamics.
The Allure of Being Sought After and Sexual Confidence
Within lifestyle terms, ‘unicorns’ are bisexual women who love to be intimate with both men and women, within a couple. And unicorns are considered highly desirable within threesome play.
For most women, it is a rush to feel so covetable and to be the focus of erotic fantasies. But traditionally, unicorns are viewed as solitary entities rather than paired beings.
So, while it may be an uncommon concept to view a ‘female unicorn’ as also belonging within an existing relationship, there is no reason why that can’t be the case. And partnered, ENM women should feel the freedom to explore a sexually-charged threesome, even if it’s only a one-time experience.
Explore the Unicorn Gathering at Oasis Aqualounge
Oasis Aqualounge hosts ‘Unicorn Night’ monthly, on the fourth Saturday. This event encourages threesome play between couples and solo women with the inclusion of icebreakers and sometimes, guest speakers to help facilitate mingling and flirting.
Over the past year, Unicorn Night has included a ‘Unicorn Gathering’ into its event format, to help support and motivate solo women who attend this night. The Unicorn Gathering is one hour, allowing those who attend the opportunity to chat, ask questions and embrace their identity with pride.
Oasis Aqualounge encourages any woman to attend this event, regardless of their relationship structure. All solo women are invited to the Unicorn Gathering to learn and meet other women who are interested in or have experience being in a threesome with a male/female couple.
Become a Unicorn for the Night
Unicorn Night at Oasis Aqualounge wants to inspire solo women to embrace their desires and for couples to explore threesomes with other, consensual adults.
And the beauty of sex club themes is that they allow guests to embody fantasies within a safe and liberated environment without the pressure of assuming a particular identity in the vanilla world.
So, go ahead and become a unicorn, for the night!
Become a Unicorn for the Night
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From Friday, October 17th, to Sunday, October 19th, Oasis Aqualounge participated in the annual Taboo Sex Show, held at the International Center in Mississauga. As planned, we created the largest on-premise play area that this lively, sexually themed consumer show has ever featured!
An Experiential & Erotic Play Area
Building on past success, Oasis Aqualounge took our Taboo Show booth experience to the next level in 2025. In previous years, Oasis offered a small, discreet space for solo women and couples to enjoy and the response was amazing. So, this year, we expanded the booth to make it four times larger, featuring a luxurious private lounge for couples and women plus a newly added lounge for solo men to explore their voyeuristic interests.
Similar to the physical club, the play area was stocked with safer sex items, including condoms and lubricant. Monitors throughout the lounge displayed Oasis-produced adult films to enhance the ambiance. The plush interior and soft leather playbeds contributed to a sensual atmosphere, encouraging many couples to engage in passionate and intimate encounters.
Weekend-Long Presentations at the Seminar Stage
In keeping with the tradition of the Taboo Sex Show, Oasis Aqualounge founder Judy Kaye and Marketing Director Fatima Mechtab (‘Miss F’) held presentations from Friday until Sunday, on the Seminar Stage. Together, they spoke about ‘Your First Visit to a Sex Club,’ informing potential guests of what to expect inside an erotic club.
Miss F also presented on the topic of ‘How To Find A Unicorn’, which discussed the popular fantasy of a threesome for couples. But beyond providing suggestions on how to procure your elusive third, Miss F also provided insight into who unicorns are and also what these solo, bisexual women enjoy about intimate encounters with couples.
Hot Entertainment by the Hellbound Harlots and More!
No Oasis Aqualounge show booth is complete without scorching entertainment by featured performers. All weekend long, a sequence of sexy dancers graced the Oasis booth stage, seducing and inspiring show attendees.
The Couples Lounge also featured live, Spectator Sex shows from exhibitionist couples who love to perform for a captive audience!
The Hot Tub; Staying Warm and Wet
Of course, we had a fully-functioning hot tub in our booth! Similar to years past, Oasis Aqualounge offers the chance for show attendees to relax in our bubbly hot tub, unwind, and chat with our Oasis Aquaflirt ambassadors. What better way to take a break and warm up than by learning about our water-themed, clothing-optional venue?
See You Next Year; Visit Us Soon
We want to thank the Taboo Sex Show for all of their assistance, as well as all of the amazing members ofour sex-positive community for supporting Oasis Aqualounge. It was a pleasure to meet both new and regular faces.
Take advantage of your 50% coupon (that was provided to attendees at the show) and pay us a visit soon! For information on upcoming events and themes, visit our Instagram and Twitter pages. And if you have any questions about Oasis Aqualounge, send us an email at: info@oasisaqualounge.com
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Are you a monogamous couple looking to spice up your intimacy for the new year? Whether you are married or in a long-term committed relationship, you can discover ways to create hotter monogamy for 2025.
Why Strive for Hotter Monogamy?
Monogamous couples and ethically non-monogamous couples are similar in many ways. Both relationship styles strive for trust, communication, and genuine care while maintaining passion and enthusiasm. But where ‘ENM’ couples allow for sexual interactions and erotic stimuli outside of their core partnership, monogamous couples maintain a closed form of intimacy between two partners.
At the beginning of any intimate relationship, arousal comes easily. However, after years of developing a routine, additional responsibilities, or life changes, desire can sometimes be left on the back burner. “Being in a long-term monogamous relationship is notoriously difficult, and then you add kids into the mix, and it can be the death blow to a healthy sex life.”
Finding ways to rediscover your primal attraction is essential to maintaining a healthy, intimate relationship. Plus, seeking and implementing creative ideas will elevate the fun and playfulness in your monogamous relationship.
Keeping the Passion Alive
While some people may believe that monogamy can become boring or too restrictive, those who identify as monogamous find genuine fulfillment in this relationship style.
With monogamy may come more trust and familiarity with your partner, making it easier to find authentic vulnerability through sexual intimacy. “Monogamy is a container for deeper growth and intimacy, for deeper love and deeper safety, but only if the work is done.”
To remain vibrant, all relationships require effort. By remaining mindful and prioritizing intimacy, sex between monogamous couples can remain thrilling, arousing, and satisfying.
Maintain Hotter Monogamy
To keep the passion burning, sometimes couples need to think outside the box to avoid the trappings of a monotonous sexual routine. Check out these suggestions below to maintain creativity and connection in your sex life.
Switching up locations.
If you are used to having sex in your bedroom (especially if you have young children or older parents living in your home), get out of the house and try a new sexual adventure elsewhere to avoid a mundane routine. Try having a backseat quickie or sex in a secluded outdoor setting. You can also visit Oasis Aqualounge for a sexy ‘staycation’ without planning an elaborate vacation.
Incorporate toys and props.
Sure, nothing beats the warm, sensual touch of your lover. But if you want to add some variety, try adding some frisky elements to your playtime. Sex toys are always a great addition, but you can also include household items such as pillows, sensual fabrics, or even DYI kink implements for extra naughtiness!
Discuss your fantasies.
Sexual fantasies are fun and healthy, and communicating them to your partner is a great way to stimulate the imagination and build a more intense, intimate bond. These illusions can be shared during hushed pillow talk, or they could be enacted. There shouldn’t be pressure to explore a fantasy in real life, but if you do, make sure you are both on the same page.
Plan ahead for sex (sometimes).
Sex shown in the movies is a great example of hot encounters being a spontaneous act, and there are very few instances that illustrate otherwise. However, in real life, we are busy with responsibilities. But being ‘too busy’ isn’t an excuse. It just means that you and your partner may need to schedule intimacy when you can both be present with each other.
Vary what ‘sex’ looks like.
Such as with any appetite, couples will have differing drives or may desire separate sexual stimuli. If conventional intercourse is your usual go-to, try enjoying an ‘oral-only’ experience for an evening. Or, if you want to explore sensation play, try teasing your partner while they wear a blindfold. Sexual practices can include more than genital contact, so use your fingers, tongues, voices, and imagination to diversify your play.
Don’t forget the romance.
Even if you’ve been with your partner for years, a little ‘courting’ goes a long way to preserve the fire between you. In long-term relationships, it can be easy to overlook the sexy nuances that brought you together in the first place. Incorporate some romantic elements to show how much your partner is desired and considered, such as using candles, massage oils, and music to set the mood.
You Deserve Hot, Monogamous Sex
Considering ways to elevate intimacy in your relationship is one step closer to hotter monogamy. “Once those initial butterflies fade and you settle into everyday routines, it’s easy for things to become a little blah in the bedroom, even if you’re still totally attracted to your partner.”
Monogamous couples can enjoy sensual, erotic, and imaginative encounters without having to change their relationship dynamics. And considering that more than half of the couples that visit Oasis Aqualounge consider themselves monogamous, you will be in good company at our club.
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From Hotwife to Unicorn: An Erotic and Empowering Transition
Open relationships inspire partners to embrace diverse identities within an ethically non-monogamous framework, such as the hotwife dynamic or dating a unicorn. But this unique freedom can also empower individuals to transition between roles, guided by their personal desires.
In particular, bisexual women who are in open relationships may enjoy the idea of unicorn with another couple, while still maintaining their hotwife status. Luckily, no rules are restricting the transition from hotwife to unicorn, even if it’s just for one night!
Embracing A Unicorn Identity as the Object of Desire
For women who assume a particular identity with an open relationship, such as a hotwife or a cuckqueans, exploring being a unicorn allows her the be centered, as the object of desire, between a couple.
And especially for women who tend to pursue and initiate or who are more voyeuristic, transitioning into a unicorn can provide an erotic shift in power dynamics.
Identities Can Be Fluid with Freedom to Explore
Open, ethically non-monogamous (ENM) relationships are designed to allow for growth and evolution between partners. While this concept can also exist within monogamous relationships, the transition between roles in ENM relationships tends to be more seamless because the open nature of the relationship has already been established.
For example, a swinger couple that permits extraneous sexual activity outside of their core relationship could conceive more easily the idea of the female playing with another couple, known as a ‘unicorn.’
This understanding may seem less challenging for non-monogamous couples, encouraging confidence in exploring these relationship dynamics.
The Allure of Being Sought After and Sexual Confidence
Within lifestyle terms, ‘unicorns’ are bisexual women who love to be intimate with both men and women, within a couple. And unicorns are considered highly desirable within threesome play.
For most women, it is a rush to feel so covetable and to be the focus of erotic fantasies. But traditionally, unicorns are viewed as solitary entities rather than paired beings.
So, while it may be an uncommon concept to view a ‘female unicorn’ as also belonging within an existing relationship, there is no reason why that can’t be the case. And partnered, ENM women should feel the freedom to explore a sexually-charged threesome, even if it’s only a one-time experience.
Explore the Unicorn Gathering at Oasis Aqualounge
Oasis Aqualounge hosts ‘Unicorn Night’ monthly, on the fourth Saturday. This event encourages threesome play between couples and solo women with the inclusion of icebreakers and sometimes, guest speakers to help facilitate mingling and flirting.
Over the past year, Unicorn Night has included a ‘Unicorn Gathering’ into its event format, to help support and motivate solo women who attend this night. The Unicorn Gathering is one hour, allowing those who attend the opportunity to chat, ask questions and embrace their identity with pride.
Oasis Aqualounge encourages any woman to attend this event, regardless of their relationship structure. All solo women are invited to the Unicorn Gathering to learn and meet other women who are interested in or have experience being in a threesome with a male/female couple.
Become a Unicorn for the Night
Unicorn Night at Oasis Aqualounge wants to inspire solo women to embrace their desires and for couples to explore threesomes with other, consensual adults.
And the beauty of sex club themes is that they allow guests to embody fantasies within a safe and liberated environment without the pressure of assuming a particular identity in the vanilla world.
So, go ahead and become a unicorn, for the night!
Become a Unicorn for the Night
The 2025 Taboo Sex Show Recap with Oasis Aqualounge
From Friday, October 17th, to Sunday, October 19th, Oasis Aqualounge participated in the annual Taboo Sex Show, held at the International Center in Mississauga. As planned, we created the largest on-premise play area that this lively, sexually themed consumer show has ever featured!
An Experiential & Erotic Play Area
Building on past success, Oasis Aqualounge took our Taboo Show booth experience to the next level in 2025. In previous years, Oasis offered a small, discreet space for solo women and couples to enjoy and the response was amazing. So, this year, we expanded the booth to make it four times larger, featuring a luxurious private lounge for couples and women plus a newly added lounge for solo men to explore their voyeuristic interests.
Similar to the physical club, the play area was stocked with safer sex items, including condoms and lubricant. Monitors throughout the lounge displayed Oasis-produced adult films to enhance the ambiance. The plush interior and soft leather playbeds contributed to a sensual atmosphere, encouraging many couples to engage in passionate and intimate encounters.
Weekend-Long Presentations at the Seminar Stage
In keeping with the tradition of the Taboo Sex Show, Oasis Aqualounge founder Judy Kaye and Marketing Director Fatima Mechtab (‘Miss F’) held presentations from Friday until Sunday, on the Seminar Stage. Together, they spoke about ‘Your First Visit to a Sex Club,’ informing potential guests of what to expect inside an erotic club.
Miss F also presented on the topic of ‘How To Find A Unicorn’, which discussed the popular fantasy of a threesome for couples. But beyond providing suggestions on how to procure your elusive third, Miss F also provided insight into who unicorns are and also what these solo, bisexual women enjoy about intimate encounters with couples.
Hot Entertainment by the Hellbound Harlots and More!
No Oasis Aqualounge show booth is complete without scorching entertainment by featured performers. All weekend long, a sequence of sexy dancers graced the Oasis booth stage, seducing and inspiring show attendees.
Special thanks to Stiletto Thunderkiss, Alexa Fawn, and Madison Banes of the Hellbound Harlots, Samara, and Coral for their incredible shows. Oasis Aqualounge members can also catch these performers at the physical club for upcoming events.
The Couples Lounge also featured live, Spectator Sex shows from exhibitionist couples who love to perform for a captive audience!
The Hot Tub; Staying Warm and Wet
Of course, we had a fully-functioning hot tub in our booth! Similar to years past, Oasis Aqualounge offers the chance for show attendees to relax in our bubbly hot tub, unwind, and chat with our Oasis Aquaflirt ambassadors. What better way to take a break and warm up than by learning about our water-themed, clothing-optional venue?
See You Next Year; Visit Us Soon
We want to thank the Taboo Sex Show for all of their assistance, as well as all of the amazing members ofour sex-positive community for supporting Oasis Aqualounge. It was a pleasure to meet both new and regular faces.
Take advantage of your 50% coupon (that was provided to attendees at the show) and pay us a visit soon! For information on upcoming events and themes, visit our Instagram and Twitter pages. And if you have any questions about Oasis Aqualounge, send us an email at: info@oasisaqualounge.com
Hotter Monogamy for 2025
Are you a monogamous couple looking to spice up your intimacy for the new year? Whether you are married or in a long-term committed relationship, you can discover ways to create hotter monogamy for 2025.
Why Strive for Hotter Monogamy?
Monogamous couples and ethically non-monogamous couples are similar in many ways. Both relationship styles strive for trust, communication, and genuine care while maintaining passion and enthusiasm. But where ‘ENM’ couples allow for sexual interactions and erotic stimuli outside of their core partnership, monogamous couples maintain a closed form of intimacy between two partners.
At the beginning of any intimate relationship, arousal comes easily. However, after years of developing a routine, additional responsibilities, or life changes, desire can sometimes be left on the back burner. “Being in a long-term monogamous relationship is notoriously difficult, and then you add kids into the mix, and it can be the death blow to a healthy sex life.”
Finding ways to rediscover your primal attraction is essential to maintaining a healthy, intimate relationship. Plus, seeking and implementing creative ideas will elevate the fun and playfulness in your monogamous relationship.
Keeping the Passion Alive
While some people may believe that monogamy can become boring or too restrictive, those who identify as monogamous find genuine fulfillment in this relationship style.
With monogamy may come more trust and familiarity with your partner, making it easier to find authentic vulnerability through sexual intimacy. “Monogamy is a container for deeper growth and intimacy, for deeper love and deeper safety, but only if the work is done.”
To remain vibrant, all relationships require effort. By remaining mindful and prioritizing intimacy, sex between monogamous couples can remain thrilling, arousing, and satisfying.
Maintain Hotter Monogamy
To keep the passion burning, sometimes couples need to think outside the box to avoid the trappings of a monotonous sexual routine. Check out these suggestions below to maintain creativity and connection in your sex life.
Switching up locations.
If you are used to having sex in your bedroom (especially if you have young children or older parents living in your home), get out of the house and try a new sexual adventure elsewhere to avoid a mundane routine. Try having a backseat quickie or sex in a secluded outdoor setting. You can also visit Oasis Aqualounge for a sexy ‘staycation’ without planning an elaborate vacation.
Incorporate toys and props.
Sure, nothing beats the warm, sensual touch of your lover. But if you want to add some variety, try adding some frisky elements to your playtime. Sex toys are always a great addition, but you can also include household items such as pillows, sensual fabrics, or even DYI kink implements for extra naughtiness!
Discuss your fantasies.
Sexual fantasies are fun and healthy, and communicating them to your partner is a great way to stimulate the imagination and build a more intense, intimate bond. These illusions can be shared during hushed pillow talk, or they could be enacted. There shouldn’t be pressure to explore a fantasy in real life, but if you do, make sure you are both on the same page.
Plan ahead for sex (sometimes).
Sex shown in the movies is a great example of hot encounters being a spontaneous act, and there are very few instances that illustrate otherwise. However, in real life, we are busy with responsibilities. But being ‘too busy’ isn’t an excuse. It just means that you and your partner may need to schedule intimacy when you can both be present with each other.
Vary what ‘sex’ looks like.
Such as with any appetite, couples will have differing drives or may desire separate sexual stimuli. If conventional intercourse is your usual go-to, try enjoying an ‘oral-only’ experience for an evening. Or, if you want to explore sensation play, try teasing your partner while they wear a blindfold. Sexual practices can include more than genital contact, so use your fingers, tongues, voices, and imagination to diversify your play.
Don’t forget the romance.
Even if you’ve been with your partner for years, a little ‘courting’ goes a long way to preserve the fire between you. In long-term relationships, it can be easy to overlook the sexy nuances that brought you together in the first place. Incorporate some romantic elements to show how much your partner is desired and considered, such as using candles, massage oils, and music to set the mood.
You Deserve Hot, Monogamous Sex
Considering ways to elevate intimacy in your relationship is one step closer to hotter monogamy. “Once those initial butterflies fade and you settle into everyday routines, it’s easy for things to become a little blah in the bedroom, even if you’re still totally attracted to your partner.”
Monogamous couples can enjoy sensual, erotic, and imaginative encounters without having to change their relationship dynamics. And considering that more than half of the couples that visit Oasis Aqualounge consider themselves monogamous, you will be in good company at our club.