The Sweet Sound Of Pleasure; Vocalizing Sexuality

Vocalizing sexual pleasure and expressing shame-free sexuality inside Toronto sex club Oasis Aqualounge
Written by: Fatima Mechtab

Call me a perv (no, please-it’s a compliment!) but I love to be surrounded by the sweet cacophony of sex sounds. Luckily, as the Marketing Director for Oasis Aqualounge-a sex club located in the heart of downtown Toronto-I can indulge in aural pleasure, seven days a week, from 11am-3am.

Oasis Aqualounge embraces a sex-positive attitude, which means that the business “…promotes and embraces sexuality and sexual expression, with an emphasis on joy (and) consensual sex.”  We assume a shame-free stance on sexual pleasure; healthy sexuality is for everyone and every body. We uphold and support ongoing, active consent between partners and we do not judge what brings someone physical and/or emotional joy.

Spending time inside sex club really opens your eyes (and ears) to what genuine pleasure looks, sounds and smells like; sexuality has the power to evoke all of the senses. But for some, vocalizing and/or hearing sexual gratification or alarming slaps and spanks during kink play can be intimidating.

Recently, a friend confided in me that their partner is sometimes overwhelmed by the sounds of her orgasms. Being the sexually progressive person that I am, I immediately judged the partner’s reaction as sex-negative and body shaming. Having an orgasm (or five) in front of your partner(s) is one of the most vulnerable states you can be in.

As an enthusiastic and vocal person myself, I don’t plan to scream out loud; it’s just what my body does, in response to feeling unbelievably amazing as a result of how my partner is touching or fucking me.  I find vocal expression also helps to embrace the full-body power of the orgasm. Also, as a sex-positive woman who is nearing her mid-forties, I am unlearning my sexual shame; I am now a loud and proud cummer!

However, upon further examination, it’s easy to equate the shame around vocalizing pleasure to how mainstream society views sexuality, in general; particularly towards women. Mainstream images of sexuality are still quite narrow; thin, youthful bodies that embrace traditional femininity are favored as sexual beings. Sex is shown as easy-breezy, mess-free fun where everyone has the same type of ethereal, transcendent orgasm that is also kept within a controlled volume. Sheets stay white, wet spots are non-existent and no one ever farts, laughs, cries or gets a leg cramp. Yea, right.

Couples who are parents to young children may have developed a habit of having inhibited, quiet sex; no parent wants to wake up a sleeping child with their own sex noises. For couples looking to escape the restrictions of their family home, a visit to Oasis Aqualounge could offer a refreshing and liberating way to connect intimately as sexually, expressive adults.

It’s no wonder that sounds which deviate from soft sighs or gentle moans could be jarring to a person that has only ever been exposed to what is deemed ‘acceptable.’ Inside the walls of Oasis Aqualounge, I have heard screams, cackles, whoops, grunts, giggles, groans and a string of expletives used in only the most delicious way.  I have also be privy to silent orgasms, soft orgasms, whispers and long, robust sighs. 

I feel grateful to exist between the walls of Oasis Aqualounge where the vocalization of pleasure is encouraged and where healthy, authentic forms of intimacy and erotic expression flourish between consenting adults. For anyone who has ever been afraid of their own sex noises, I recommend listening to other people have sex. Not only does it normalize a basic human reaction, it could help you to get out of your own sexual shell.

A crescendo of orgasmic cries rising in climax is a beautiful and mighty sound. Find your own voice and join the choir found inside our sexually charged, clothing-optional and shame-free environment.

Fatima Mechtab
Marketing Director. Event Producer. Owner

The Multiple O: Multi Visit Packages Now Available At Oasis Aqualounge

We are excited to introduce a new feature for guests of Oasis Aqualounge; Multi Visit Packages. Oasis Multi Visit Packages are designed for guests who are caught in between buying a 4 month membership and paying for single visits. Similar to our Weekend Pass for couples, these packages will allow guests to save on admission prices by buying multiple visits at once. Our packages allow guests to use their visit vouchers anytime, within 4 months of their purchase and we have various options for both singles and couples.

Option 1: Sunday-Wednesday-Three Visit Package: $180

As the name suggests, this package contains three, one-time visit vouchers for solo men or couples to visit the club from Sunday to Wednesday. Admission restrictions will still apply for Sunday day events (couples and women only) and Sapphic (no cisgender men).

A solo male flirting with two women in the outdoor heated pool of Oasis Aqualounge on a Wednesday afternoon
Option 2: Anytime Three Visit Package: $240

This package includes three, one-time visit vouchers for solo men or couples to attend Oasis on any given day.  Admission restrictions will still apply for all events.

A happy couple having a drink at the fully licensed bar at Oasis Aqualounge

For more details, please email or inquire within, with an employee at Oasis Aqualounge. Also, check out our YouTube account for great info about the club!

Super Naughty Show & Oasis Aqualounge

Oasis Aqualounge is pairing with the Super Wonder Gallery for their annual Super Naughty Show, happening February 22 and February 23. The Super Naughty Show will host an erotic art exhibition and live performances, by local talent.

The Oasis AquaFlirts will be representing the club on both nights. Meet our promotional team and learn more about Oasis has to offer.

We look forward to a weekend of creative, sexual expression and pairing with community organizers.