Introducing Miss Behave: A Perspective on Hot Springs at Oasis Aqualounge

 Introducing Miss Behave: The Hot Springs Socializer

I’ve always been fascinated with the sex industry. I love erotic pictures, movies, and stories, but I was always a relatively shy and reserved person. It all started with my first visit to a strip club. All kinds of emotions ran through my head that night. As someone who was very self-conscious about their own nudity, I was amazed at how comfortable these women were showcasing their bodies. To me, it represented the ultimate in strength, power, and confidence, and I admired these women tremendously. I knew I wanted to tap into that power that these ladies possessed, and it’s been quite a journey!

I started out as a web cam girl, and then eventually moved on to stripping. Stripping seemed very enticing to me and once I started working in clubs, I loved the beautiful ladies I was constantly surrounded by (who I occasionally had some sexy fun with!) in addition to the next-to-naked outfits and 7 inch heels that were fun to wear. However, what I didn’t like was working where I didn’t feel safe, the cattiness and jealousy between many of the dancers, and horribly disrespectful customers who assumed a false sense of entitlement to your body, just because they were paying you. After two years, I left the stripping industry.

I found out about Oasis and went there for the first time three years ago, and was in absolute awe. I was shocked at how open everyone was with their sexuality. I loved how there was such a variety in race, gender, and sexual orientation openly expressing themselves in such a beautiful and safe atmosphere. I was intrigued, and I knew I wanted more.

I’ve now been working at Oasis Aqualounge as a socializer for Hot Springs Wednesdays for almost a year now. I speak with all kinds of people, particularly single men who are new to the club and might not feel so comfortable in this kind of environment, though it doesn’t take too long for them to loosen up after a few encouraging words. I’m a hardcore sapiosexual (someone who is sexually attracted to intelligence or the human mind), so the conversations I have with many of the guests here are absolutely priceless. Oasis attracts people from all walks of life, from all over the world, with all kinds of backgrounds and careers. I recently interacted with a married couple who drove for 6 hours to come here because they heard so many good things about the club and there’s no other place like it where they’re from.

The husband was handsome and very nice, but it was his wife that caught my immediate attention. She was beyond beautiful, standing at 5’6, with gorgeous hazel eyes, succulent full lips, and rocking her sexy full figure with the utmost confidence-to the point where that you couldn’t take your eyes off her! They invited me over to have a drink with them, and she complemented me on my outfit (a black fishnet dress and g string that left little to the imagination) and I complemented her on hers (rather, her lack of one). We chatted for a bit, and she wasted no time in letting me know that she was incredibly attracted to me. They told me that they had an open relationship where her husband was not only comfortable with his wife playing with other women; he encouraged it. They’ve always had this type of marriage, and they asked me if I thought that was weird, to which I replied, absolutely not! If I ever decided to get married, that would be the kind of marriage I would want – one with openness and total acceptance.

Society tends to try and define what a romantic partnership should consist of, and monogamy is the supposed default, when in actuality, there are so many different kinds of relationships, and whatever works for you is cool. At one of my first shifts as a socializer, I had a great conversation with a married woman that had sex with five men that day and was texting her husband all the dirty details, who was jealous that he wasn’t there to watch.

Every Hot Springs is different. It’s one of the few nights at Oasis where single men are welcome. The club does have its weekly regulars, but the club always attracts more and more new faces that are intrigued by the idea of an adult playground. It is hosted by the beautiful MsKitty, who always looks good enough to eat (and I mean that in the naughtiest way possible!). Single men are welcome to roam the first and second floors freely, but must be have female accompaniment for the third floor lounge area. Of course, this doesn’t mean that a single man who hasn’t been invited upstairs will never witness any hot and heavy action. My favourite room at Oasis, by far, is the dungeon. If only those walls could talk… they’ve witnessed everything from The Right Approach to Attracting Women workshops with the gorgeous and lovely Miss F, to naked yoga, Sybian try-outs, fisting, blow jobs, gang bangs, impact play, bondage, the list goes on. Personally, I appreciate all the sexy female eye candy that helps to indulge my sweet tooth (only in my vivid imagination of course, since unfortunately I can’t play while I work). However what I do at Oasis on my own time, on the other hand, is another story!

Every Wednesday I find myself in awe of how beautiful true liberation can be. Freedom comes in so many forms, and sexual freedom is no exception. Sex is a part of life. Life begins with sex; technically, it’s a necessity to our existence. So if that’s the case, why must so many of us be so uptight about it? The fact is that many of us feel that we can’t express our true selves without being judged. Oasis provides the perfect atmosphere to check the limitations society puts on us at the door and feel completely free to do whatever you want.

Perhaps if we were raised without shame and guilt about our desires, we might be freer people in more ways than simply the sexual.”

–The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships& Other Adventures, by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy

The Sex Olympics-Wrestling, a Pole Competition and Naked Twister!

On Saturday Feb. 8th, Oasis Aqualounge celebrated their first ever Sex Olympics with a  variety  of fun and erotic games designed for guests to engage with one another and enjoy some friendly -and sexy-competition!

Host Miss F and the team at Oasis Aqualounge hosted 3 different features of this event. At 8:00pm, Sean-a Fetish Wrestling instructor and his lovely assistant demonstrated some moves that could have you pinning down your sweetie in no time! This activity was as fun to watch as it was to participate. Of course, spankings were enthusiastically delivered by the winner!

Lovely Eva-the Pole Envy/Brass After Class instructor entertained a group of beautiful ladies, scantily clad in outfits from The Wratens. The women were taught some basic pole techniques which were then put to a short routine. The winner was chosen by an enthusiastic audience who applauded, as she spun and strutted herself around the pole.

At 11:00pm, guests gathered in the dungeon for a quick game of Naked Twister. 4 guests  spankingbalanced around one another and the remaining body won a gift bag full of Oasis Aqualounge goodies!

A special mention to guests who chose to dress in Canada’s colors-red and white. There were some fantastic and sexy lingerie pieces worn by the ladies and one guest even draped a flag over his nude torso. Team spirit was in the air!

Oasis Aqualounge thanks everyone for attending and we wish gold medals to everyone for their participation and performances!

 

 

 

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Sex School with Miss F: Tantric Teaser ft. Eva Maya Devi-Exercises in Intimacy

SexSchoolTantraWeb On Friday Feb 7th, warm bodies ventured out into the cold to Oasis Aqualounge to attend the monthly workshop series Sex School with Miss F, held on the first Friday evening of every month.

For February, host Miss F enlisted in the expertise of Dakini Eva Maya Devi for a special presentation on the basics of Tantric Sex.  The word Tantra is a Sanskrit word that combines the  word expand (tan) and the word instrument (tra). Tantra has often been described as a spiritual science and/or a style of meditation that uses and expands energy from the chakras.  Eva Maya Devi explained that there are 9 chakras-which are points within the body-that can be activated by Tantric Sex.

While everyone was seated in a large circle, the instructor began with a brief introduction of herself and her practice, as well as some basic terminology and location of the 9 chakras. Once some basic points were covered, the instructor asked everyone to pair off and couples remained

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The instructor began by asking the couples to look deeply into one another’s eyes and hold the gaze, while lightly stroking each other’s skin. After a few minutes, the couples started to bond as their breath began to flow in and out with unified energy. The instructor then took the light touching into a deeper caress and while still maintaining eye contact and deep breathing. She asked couples to trace each other’s skin and to make patterns with the tips of their fingers. She instructed them to sigh and respond through sounds in order to express their pleasure. Soon, a room packed full of couples were intertwined with their partners. Arms and legs were wrapped and straddled and the sounds of breathing and moaning became one.

At this point, the energy in the room was extraordinary. Although the sounds were hazy and soft, there seemed to be a hum in the air and a warm glow surrounded the participants. During this time, there was no oral or penetrative sex nor any genital contact. The connection was purely through touch, breath and eye contact. The guests seemed adrift in a sea of pure bliss. The room was quiet but alive with passion and emotion.

Eva Maya Devi then incorporated a heart massage into the workshop. With one partner lying on their back and other partner positioned overtop and facing forward, the instructor demonstrated a circular motion which the guests used on their partner’s chest. This motion is said to active the heart chakra or anahata.  Anahata is thought to  govern circulation, unconditional love for the self and others, passion, and devotion.

The last element of this presentation was a 15 minute ‘Cuddle Party.’  Cuddle parties are designed to allowing people to experience non-sexual group physical intimacy through cuddling and affection. At this point, the couples separated and became one entity with arms and legs draped over one another.  Everyone seemed very relaxed and comfortable with one another and it was a fantastic way end the workshop.

Every guest received a raffle ticket to win a complimentary,  90 minute Tantra Fusion session with Eva Maya Devi in her private studio. One lucky guest was chosen at the end of the event and we hope that she enjoys another journey towards bliss!

Oasis Aqualounge is excited for the return of Dakini Eva Maya Devi  on Satuday  March 29th, 2014 for our Kama Sutra event. Please stay tuned for upcoming details.