Red Wristbands: “Not Interested”

Do you want to avoid being approached by others during your visit at Oasis Aqualounge? We now have an option to indicate that you are not interested in being approached for play.

Red wristbands will be available at the front pay station on Monday, Tuesday and Wednesdays as a complimentary service. They indicate the words ‘not interested’ directly on the bracelet.

If you see someone wearing a red wristband, please do not approach them to ask for sex/to play. You may say hello or smile but in general, we ask that you leave that guest alone.

If you are wearing a red wristband, and you feel that someone is propositioning you inappropriately, please mention it to an Oasis staff member. They will make sure that the person is made aware of the meaning of the wristband.

We hope you enjoy this new feature and please reach out to us for any comments or questions.

Tales of Scheherazade: erotica by Alice In PolyLand

Tales of Scheherazade

Much as your eyes are scanning this page right now, dear reader, so were Alice’s. Reading the stories out loud, one by one. Perhaps, with the only difference – she couldn’t move her hands as they were tied behind her back. And, one more little detail – a small, slick remotely controlled vibrator placed on her clit and G spot inside.

“Go on,” said the Husband, “I am enjoying these.”

“The better you read your tales, the more pleasure you would feel.”

He smiled and increased the stimulation curves on his cell phone app.

Alice was doing her best. Just like Scheherazade, trying to please the King with wondrous stories, swimming in waves of pleasure. At times she’d stop to take a breath or let a moan out and suddenly, all sensations would seize… It really didn’t pay to displease him.

Waves symbolize everything in life – expansion, stasis, contraction, stasis.

Wave as with four seasons expanding into growth, pausing in owe, contracting into preservation and, absorbing the nutrients…

Wave as with ocean ripples expanding and contracting in tides…

Wave as with life… and death…

Alice was feeling the wonderful blissful stimulation radiating outward into her whole body, reading out loud and staying with the pleasure… Pausing to react, enjoy take in the sensations and consequently getting no more stimulation.

The Husband was not always cruel, you know. He was fair and just. When she did well, she would get a treat. Alice would get to worship his beautiful, tempting cock with her tongue, in her mouth…

When the stories were finished, hands untied and play turned into love making. Waves turned into spirals.

Alice closed her eyes and with each new way her Husband loved her, she felt like a part of a big ocean, receiving ripples all over her body and energy field. Stronger, closer spaced ripples – colorful waves of energy radiating from him to her. Sensations, sounds, beautiful rings of energy came all together as a full body, mind and soul eruption. So subtle and so strong. Unifying, Vivid. Vibrant.

Follow the  adventures of Alice In Polyland through her varied erotica, available online.

 

What is Polyamory?

On July 23rd, Oasis Aqualounge will be hosting a Polyamory Speed Dating event, starting at 8pm.  The night will begin with an ‘Intro To Polyamory’ discussion for those who are curious to learn more about various styles of open relationships.  Our presenter has crafted an article below, in preparation for the event. Follow her on FB, Instagram and YouTube: @SpiritSexLab

What is polyamory you ask?

The literal translation of the word is “Loving Many”. Polyamory is a consensually open, alternative relationship lifestyle that allows for multiple romantic/sexual partners. A road less traveled…

Many people are happily monogamous. Others are content being single. Then there those who are asexual. We are all truly unique – this is the beauty of being a human… Embracing the authenticity, being true to yourself and your needs.

MONOGAMY AND CULTURAL EXPECTATIONS

Most of us have been raised with the cultural expectations of meeting a soul mate, falling in love and living happily ever after while being monogamous throughout the length of the marriage. This approach works for some but, unfortunately, not for others.

The reality that many people face is that the divorce rates are 50-75%, 30-60% of married partners engage in infidelity and 50% of children suffer from divorce…

According to leading Belgian psychotherapist Esther Perel, the reason why the long term monogamy may not work for everyone (why sexuality suffers, and partners don’t connect as deeply as the time passes) is due to the opposing needs human beings have.

OPPOSING NEEDS

“Fire needs air. Desire needs space.” – Esther Perel

Our two opposing needs are – security/safety and ownership on one hand; and novelty, freedom and spontaneity on the other. The more accustomed we become to our partners, the more secure – the routine kicks in and we start taking each other for granted.

There are various ways, of course, in which this duality could be approached within a context of a monogamous relationship. However, since we’re currently focusing on Polyamory, here’s more information on how this alternative model works.

ALTERNATIVE MODEL

So what happens if you open a door to an alternative way of being…

  • Let’s say you’ve always wanted to connect with more than one partner – emotionally, sexually, mentally, spiritually
  • You felt compelled to have more love in your life, but wanted to do it in an honest and open way
  • You and your partner have different sexual interests that you’d like to explore separately
  • You want to bring new energy, passion and depth into your life…

Polyamory may help meet these needs. It may allow for more love, spice, novelty and depth. Not unlike other relationship models, polyamory will help you grow and learn more about yourself and this world. Become more self-confident and authentic.

As with any other relationship models, you may also encounter new challenges such as focusing closely on time management, communications, conflict resolution as well as managing your emotions.

ROAD TO AUTHENTICITY

Regardless of which relationship model you choose – it’s important to follow your inner voice and stay authentically aligned with who you are. The possibilities are infinite. Be yourself.